So on Friday me and my boyfriend had sex, it was my first time & since he sneaked into my house he could'nt be able to buy a condom so instead we had unprotected sex ( i really don't wanna hear your smart comment about well you really should used a condom if you did'tn wanna worry about that!) cause i know it was stupid of me and that will the first and last time i ever have sex without a condom. But anyways, it was my first time and so was it his too we had no lub or condom so it hurt soo bad but im so scared that i might get preg cause at once he was about to bust and then he took it out and then did what he had to do to cumm...But then i told him to wipe it off he wiped it off with his hand and made sure he did'nt have any cum anywhere on his penis and then we went on...im scared of precum i've been doing research on that..and it says theirs a possibility you can get pregnant of it or maybe that might have cum and im so scared!
So what is precum? & can they feel it when they let it out? & how do you know if they precummed inside you?
If all he did was wipe it off before continuing to have sex with you then you most definitely got plenty of semen in you.
Wait for your next period. If you miss it, wait a week from when it should have started and take a pregnancy test. Take another the week after, and another the week after that.
If either of the first two come up pregnant, the third should be at a doctors office to make sure. If none of them come up pregnant then you are most likely in the clear, as your body should be producing the hormones that will show pregnant by three weeks after a missed period.
Comrade answered Monday September 8 2008, 12:09 pm: Firstly, "wiping it off" with a hand is far from the best way to steralize a penis after ejaculation. Chances are, he didn't get it all off. In fact, I'm willing to wager he couldn't have since there was probably sperm left over in his tube.
Like betheexp said, Precum is a clearless fluid that is emitted when a man is sexually aroused. Unlike what betheexp said, there IS sperm in precum. Figures vary on what your chances are of getting pregnent from precum, but they're all between 30%-70%. Your chances are probably a bit higher since your boyfriend had fresh leftover sperm all over his penis.
Speaking as a man, it's nigh impossible to feel precum coming out under the best of cases, and truely impossible in the heat of the moment. Safe to assume that if an erect, uncovered penis comes in contact with your vagina, there is some precum in you. [ Comrade's advice column | Ask Comrade A Question ]
betheexp answered Monday September 8 2008, 10:07 am: Precum is a clearless fluid that is emitted when a man is sexually aroused. It sometimes serves as a lubricant for sex. I don't know if they can feel it when it comes out, you would probably get the best answer by asking your boyfriend or another male you feel comfortable with. And for you last question, there really is no way to know if they precummed inside you, sorry.
There is no sperm in precum. However, there is sperm in precum if it recently follows a cum because the sperm from the cum will always be some leftover in the duct. So while it is possible to become pregnant, this is highly unlikely.
If it has been 24-72 hrs. since the sex you should consider an EC (emergency contraceptive) pill. If it has been longer than that, you should be able to look up free clinics in your area which should be able to provide pregnancy tests and support. [ betheexp's advice column | Ask betheexp A Question ]
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