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I do trust my partner when it comes to cheating, i know he would never cheat on me. But the only thing i cannot trust him with is when he talks to other girls .. i know that sometimes he might say things to them that you shouldn't if you are in a relationship with somebody. I know he loves me and wouldn't leave me for anybody but i dont know if i can be with him when i feel like this. What should i doo ? =\ x
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Okay... You're saying that you can trust him... But you don't like the way he talks to other girls. Why? What is he saying?
I can't really answer the question with so little information. I mean... I don't know if he's just saying something like, 'I think you're cute.' Or if he's discussing the intimate details of your relationship with a member of the opposite sex.
What I can tell you is this... If you feel like he's saying something that's inappropriate, you need to tell him (in a non-confrontational way) that some of the things he says makes you feel insecure. Because while I may not _know_ what's going on... I think that _your_ insecurity is a big factor in this problem. I'm not trying to invalidate you're feelings. Really... I can understand what you're going through. But if he can be trusted, why are you treating him like he can't?
Just talk about it with him. Chances are that if you haven't talked about it with him all ready... He doesn't even know that he's doing anything to upset you. And how is he supposed to know what's on your mind if you don't tell him? Communication is a must in any healthy, lasting relationship. So... Open your mouth and say what's on your mind.
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