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Friend who is dealing with a death & befriended me bcos i tried to help
Well, my friend sam is dealing with a death and im REALLY close with her, well i was. I helped her out ALOT because she was my best friend, we had so many inside jokes.
i said i'd go to the funeral [but i didnt know the girl that died, but id go as a friend and for sam to cry on me for etc] and now she be-friended me but she cant tell her herself! shes making my best friend tell me, wtf?! i offered, i couldnt go though bcos i was gunna be on vacation. i have no ide awhat to say to her bcos she can be a huge bitch, bigger than i can be. and sam is in my lunch and she told my friend that shes gunna sit with me but hate me at the same time. because she doesnt have anyone to sit with. should i not allow her to sit with me? should i ignore her when she sits with me? what should i do? what should i say to her? its pissing me off that she got pissed for me OFFERING [but being not able to go] to be there for HER. and only HER. she came crying to me because of the girl that died. i dont know what to do! helppppp!
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So, let me get this straight: you want help with a friend whom got a little upset when you offered to be there at the funeral with her? I have to say that your letter is a little confusing at the beginning and not exactly clear as to what the problem is.
Reading your extra information, it seems that you've sorted things out with your friend. But just to clarify, could you inbox me with your problem clearing stating what the problem is and what is happening at the moment.
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