21/f
i recently found out that my best friend slept with my ex boyfriend. he is now my boyfriend again. i was with him for five years before we got back. the reason he slept with my best friend was because i slept with his best friend. so he was just getting revenge. it happened about more than a year ago. i don't know what to do. every time i'm with my boyfriend i think about him with my best friend. i haven't confronted her yet. he told me not to. that it would just make things awkward. i feel betrayed by her. i thought she was my best friend. what should i do with my best friend and boyfriend???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? lovestoned answered Thursday August 28 2008, 10:55 pm: Best friends don't do that. Plain and simple. The fact that when you're with your boyfriend, you think about them two together will just complicate things and in turn will eventually ruin whatever relationship you have left with your boyfriend. I'm sure you've heard the line, "once a cheater, always a cheater." It's true. You need someone that will respect you and treat you the way you should be treated.
As for your best friend.. you need to forget her. Like I said, best friends don't do that. That's really messed up.
You need to get rid of them both and move on. You're way better off without them in your life. You need to surround yourself with people that respect you and trust you.
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