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best friends but might be more
hey well my best friend is a guy cuz we relate really good. but we are also ex's so sometimes it gets kinda wierd and we are allways thinking about eachother. i really miss him, i haven't actually in person talked to him 4 a while now and sometimes i wonder what could have been. and well i'm kind of starting to like him again so i wanna know if he likes me without actually asking him...oh and i dont want him to know that i like him. 14,girl
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It's totally normal to wonder about your ex and what could have been. Sometimes though, it's more a case of not quite getting over the relationship than actually wanting to try it again.
"i really miss him, i haven't actually in person talked to him 4 a while now". Being away from a person for awhile sometimes makes you build them up in your mind to be better than they actually are. Just saying. I've done that a few times.
If you are sure that you want to get back together though, you're going to have to talk to him about it. I know that you don't want him to know that you like him, but that kinda won't get you anywhere. ;]
Just put it out there. You guys are best friends, as you mentioned above, so he shouldn't take it and make fun of you or stop talking to you. Take the chance and make the first move.
Try something like, "Listen Bob, I've been thinking lately about when we were going out. I really miss it and I'd kinda like to try it again..." Short, sweet, to the point.
I can't think of a better way to find out if he likes you other than asking him or just telling him that you like him (as I said before). Because honestly, asking a friend to ask him doesn't usually work. Besides, this way it shows confidence. =]
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