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so here is the deal...
i met this great guy a year ago, but it was over the computer so i have never met him in my life. he is the sweetest guy i hav ever met but he is a "bad boy". He has a baby girl and the girlfriend died after she gave birth. He has dropped out of school and cant drive. Just to add to all my problems he is in the hospital and it is extremely serious. He isnt online that much so i rearely talk to him. I dont know if I should end it now before I get in too deep or if I should stick by him and hope things get better. Do I follow my head or my heart?
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Hello,
I read your question and honestly the story doesn't flow very well. You met over the internet and you state that he is a sweet guy, but you never met him. How do you know that he is a sweet guy and not a serial killer. You also state that he is "bad boy". Bad Boys are not sweet. They are called bad boys for a reason. The story doesn't flow well because he has a baby girl, the mother is dead and he is in the hospital. If you think about the scenario, who is caring for the baby all the time that he is in the hospital? I think you should end this now, because you are forming a relationship with hopes and dreams that appear to be far fetched and not true.
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If you met a guy on the Internet and not in person, how do you know who he really is? You say that you do but the Internet can be manipulating. People are not what they always seem to be. If you are already having reservations about the situation now why put yourself in that situation? Sometimes we look on the Internet because it's easier to deal with people we never see than people around us. But you have to see that there is so much out there for you to experience and living your life. Maybe its good that you have concerns here so when you meet the right guy for you there will be no concerns.
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i just got out of a long distance relationship and my heart told me to let him go but my head kept saying stay with him, things might get better. but i listened to my heart because it was a waste of my time when i could find a better guy where i live.
but since youve known him for a year and he is in a serious condition, and has a kid, you may not want to get attached to him because anything is possible. but maybe you should just tell him you can be friends and that you will always be there for him with whatever he needs.
and i know everyone hopes things get better with relationships, and sometimes they do and sometimes they dont. maybe try and see if things get better between you two, and if they dont. try talking to him and tell him how you feel about everything, and maybe it is bette if you two dont get serious, and just stay friends.
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