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Painful sex, any tips?
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Anyway, my boyfriend and i plan on having sex tomorrow, and i really want to atleast try and prevent it being so uncomfortable from the feeling of his penis hitting something a few inches into my vagina.. it really hurts!
Anyone know any ways i can perhaps help myself relax a little?
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Have you tried different sexual positions to see if there is one that is more comfortable for you? There are several where the female can be in control and determine how deep penetration will be.
I can't give out descriptions or a list as that hits the grey area with the site policy about how-to info. I'm sure if you go to any bookstore or search online you'll find more information.
There are tons of books out there that you and you partner could read about positions and comfort. Maybe, just maybe it would stop the intense level of pain you are having.
Be sure when you see your doctor that you describe the pain and the problem exactly like you did for us. The more descriptive you get the easier for him/her to help you. So many people go into that office timid and not knowing how to tell them what's wrong.
My hunch is that it's Vaginismus where your vagina's muscles are tightening up with spasms that make it hard for penetration. The thing is that this is often psychological and not physical. If you have suffered trauma, sexual abuse or have fears or anxiety about anything sexual that may be the cause. You might also have a problem because of having pain once that was unbearable and then thinking it will happen over and over.
The good news is that it's treatable and there are tons of options to treat it. This article is brief but should give you some uplifting info about how to handle it. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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Hey there,
Sex is a big decision in life, it's where you feel more towards the person you're in lvoe with. It's a big step in ones life, girls i must say especially. It gives you pleasure and if could dissapoint you; i believe if you want to relax just don't think of it being something bad. Think of it as you and your boyfriend being together longer because, sex is something that can bring you two closer 'cause youd be confortable with eachothers company.
hope it helped
and STAY SAFE ! , don't get yourself caught into something you'd regret afterwards.
- jasmine r.
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