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Alright, well i like this guy and i am pretty sure he likes me still because we "talked" a week over the summer and stuff but then he had to work so we quit. Well, everybody says he likes me but he has SO MANY girls that are just his friends and i will see him hugging them everyday and massaging their shoulders and everything but he dosen't do that to me. I am really shy and we only have one class together. I mean he teases me sometime but i don't know if he is flirting or not. He mainly just talks to me friends but he says hi and stuff. What do i do and how do i find out?
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Hey,
I'm an eighteen year old guy who has always had a few girls following me around, but only on a friendly basis. It sounds like he is more comfortable around his friends, and consequently does the hugging and massages you've seen. It's a strong possibility that he won't do that to you simply because he is shy around you. I've been in a very similar situation many times.
To be honest, coming from a guy's point of view, the best thing you can do is talk to him. There is nothing more attractive to a guy who has feelings for a girl who approaches him and expresses what's going on. Trust me on this one. Talk to him. If you're off base and he doesn't have feelings, unless he is extremely immature the situation will not get out of hand, and not too much will change. If he says no, don't panic. Just tell him you had a feeling, and wanted to make sure.
I hope this has helped.
-kitsy
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Because he DOESN'T hug you and massage your shoulders and such it means he probably DOES like you. When a guy is just friends with someone they are more comfortable to do things like that. When they like someone, they are more careful...
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^ My guy friend Jack answered a question similar to this that will probably help you out =]
-Laura (16-f)
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