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i have a big problem
my step mom asked me am i having sexual innercourse with any guy i said no then she said i think your telling a lie then she said that she thinks that i am pregnate because my stomach is getting big but she donst know that i was sexualy abused 5 months ago wht should i do im only 13years old
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You need to tell your stepmother about being sexually abused. You don't necessarily need to tell her who did it, but she'll want to know. Stepmother or not, she'll be your best resource. If you're pregnant, she can help you figure out what to do. If you're not, she can help you figure out what to do. Get where I'm coming from? Honesty really is always the best policy - the people you lie to because you're afraid or embarrassed to tell them the truth can often help you much more than those that you're comfortable telling.
Just sit her down and be like "[name], I really need to talk to you, and I really need you to just listen to me for a second and not say anything."
If you start with that, hopefully she'll agree not to speak, and let you say your part first.
After she says "okay, I won't say anything," THEN you can tell her "I was sexually abused five months ago." Or depending on your relationship with her, tell her "[name] sexually abused me five months ago. I was too embarrassed to tell you..." etc.
I hope you can work up the nerve to do this. Good luck, if you like you can let me know what happens. It's up to you.
-Siren =)
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