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confuzed on what to do
im really confuzed about what to do about this situation. theres this guy ive liked for a while but he screwed me over not to long ago. he ended up sleeping with another girl the same night we hung out. but i dont know why but i want to run back to him. not for a relationship but to just be friends with bennies. i feel comfortable around him in that kind of way, i know what he did was wrong but i just want to forgive him just to be able to do this. i have no feelings towards him whatsoever anymore, he's just the person id want to be friends with bennies with if anyone. is that a bad thing? and should i do it?
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Well good for you, in realizing that this guy did hurt you. If you want to be friends with benefits, you need to be straightfoward with him on all things, like about what he did was wrong. This guy could hurt you again, there is a possibility, but if you want to over look that and don't mind, then give him a chance. Its not a bad thing to want to be friends with benifets as long as you know what you're getting into. You want to run back to him, b/c you don't want to lose him, I understand the feeling, its like if you let him go, you may lose him forever, which is why you really need to talk to him, and tell him exactly how you feel and what you want. Guys often just assume, and don't understand, which is why you have to be straightfoward. Does that make sense? And don't just make adecsison, because its what your feeling at the moment, don't be afraid to take a second, have a nice talk with him, then decide where you want to go from there. Sometimes living in the moment has consequences. So just be careful. Also, I have to say this, if you do decide to be sexually active or anything, please be careful and responsible, pregnancy is 100% preventable. If you have any other questions or need anything just write back to me. And please make a decision after you have thought about it because then you will have aclearer view of whats going on.
All the best! :)
~Jeannie
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