Hello..You responded to my posting of being being involved with a man 20 years older than me and married. Well, you seemed very open and honest. That is why I decided to fill you in a little bit more and see what you think. I really don't think I am just a young piece of booty for him because we do talk a lot and he has traveled all the way to see me just for a few minutes with no intention of sex. However, he did have another affair before me. That one only lasted a few months and it was right before he met me. He said he was faithful to his wife for 18 years before starting to open his eyes to another woman. He says he is sick of trying to be intimate with his with and always getting pushed away..I really don't know what to believe. Am I just really stupid??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ccupcake07 answered Monday August 11 2008, 8:22 am: No, your not stupid. You are just looking out for yourself. :). I would make sure i fully trust him before i go to the next step with him. If he had an affair before you what makes you think he won't do it again?? I would just make sure you know the real him before you go futher. Get to know him and date around a little with him but the first sign of weirdness between you and him, i would test it. He might be telling you the full truth and he might be a great guy, and your gut instinct is usually right so if you say that he is into you for YOU and nothing else, then be happy together. I'm sure you will make the right choice. I don't know if this helps any or not but i hope it does. If you have any other questions, you can email me again. [ ccupcake07's advice column | Ask ccupcake07 A Question ]
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