ok so 17/f. i've heard that when girls orgasm its supposed to be really intense and that you'll know when you have one. with that being said... i don't know. like when a guy is going down on me i'll feel tension building up and then my legs get all shaky and then they get unshaky and he stops and like smiles and says dont make too big of a mess or something like that and then he thinks i've orgasmed so i'm not sure... could i just have lame orgasms? oh and i play with myself all the time but i can never orgasm from that... i love sex and everything and it feels good but theres not like an intense orgasm or anything...
AskKay23 answered Sunday August 3 2008, 12:27 pm: You know you've had an orgasm when you get kind of sensitive down there. When a guy is touching you, and you feel really good, and shaky like how you say-- there should be kind of a wave of pleasure. After that's over, your clitoris will get really sensitive. That's probably the easiest way to tell if it happened. [ AskKay23's advice column | Ask AskKay23 A Question ]
heybbylovee answered Saturday August 2 2008, 6:16 pm: it sounds like you're definitely having orgasms. you probably have less intense orgasms. like for example, most women get more intense orgasms when they use vibrators. it depends on the person, really, and how they're masturbating. if you feel the tension building and you feel intense pleasure at one point, and then it's suddenly gone, you had an orgasm. [ heybbylovee's advice column | Ask heybbylovee A Question ]
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