What do guys find attractive in a female not only in the way she looks but also the way we act what kind of personality and what kind of personalities do lots of men dislike?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cux answered Friday August 1 2008, 11:20 pm: I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Guys like girls who are confident in themselves.
Guys like girls who are individuals without being too weird.
Guys like girls who are smart.
Guys like girls who are well-rounded.
Guys like girls who are willing to carry on a conversation.
Basically it differs for every guy, but generally, that's what guys think.
kiran answered Friday August 1 2008, 11:15 pm: All guy are different. So just be yourself. Don't change for what guys like. A guy will like you for who you are. You see women grown up and married, and all those women are different. So that means every single guy likes a girl for a different personality. No one is the same. So basically, don't worry about that. Trust me, be yourself, don't change. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
ductape_n_roses answered Friday August 1 2008, 2:16 pm: I'm not a guy, and I hate to tell you but not a lot of guys on here will answer this question simply because there is no one answer to this question.
I conducted a survey not long ago to guys of all age groups and they all had different answers. Some said they preferred looks vs intelligence, some said they preferred intelligence. Some said they like shy and quiet girls while others like loud and bold girls. Some like introverts, some like extroverts. Some want hot/sexy girls while some wanted cute/innocent looking girls.
As you can see, all guys have different preferences in females. Or what kind of a world would this be? All the guys would want one type of girl and all the girls would be one type and vice versa.
We can't say that most guys like this and don't like this because 1)it can be seen as sexist, 2)we can't clump guys into one interest, and 3)it'll be unfair to say this and that.
So what I'm saying is that if you're eyeing a guy, get to know him. If he likes you, he likes you and that's great. If he doesn't, well too bad. You're not going to form yourself into a girl that the guy you like (that doesn't like you) then the guy will only be liking you for the mask you've created yourself, not your true self, and I can tell you right now that relationships like that won't go on a remotely long ride. [ ductape_n_roses's advice column | Ask ductape_n_roses A Question ]
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