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I'm pregnant with his baby, but he's moving.... please he 16/f
hes seventeen, I'm sixteen, we're both going to be juniors.. we've been going out since new years day. we'had sex a lot of times, all protected. I'm allergic to latex, so we have to get the non-latex condoms... and I'm on birth control. but, I normally start my period in the last week of each month, and I haven't started yet.
he just told me on Monday he's moving to Texas in two weeks.. (we live in Indiana. ) I'm going to wait a few days before taking a pregnancy test, but i'm still scared. what should I do? I told I'm there's a possibility I'm pregnant, and he said if it comes down to it j can move with him. hes living with his brother abd his wife, and they're really sweet... my mom will literally kill me, because I'm hoping to get a scholarship for swimming to go to college... im really not wanting to get an abortion, but having it will ruin my swimming career.
please help me...
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Calm down. Right now you have a ton of what if statements running through your head. That's normal given the circumstances but WHAT IF isn't FACT. You don't know if you're pregnant until you take a pregnancy test which you haven't done (yet). You could be perfectly fine.
You used condoms and none broke (I assumed) and you're on BC. You've done all you can do to be safe short of abstinence. It's also possible sometimes to have late periods or even to psychologically scare yourself out of one (or so I read somewhere).
Right now it's best to be calm and not worry about your swimming career or any of that. Head to a local drugstore and buy one of the digital pregnancy tests (more accurate and easy to use) and then get the result. Freaking out before finding out is bad.
You can also get tested at a planned parenthood clinic anonymously or at teen clinics in some high schools these days. Bottom line take the test and find out for certain. As for mom and dad if you're pregnant be honest. They might be pissed off but once that fades they'll always be there for you. When have they ever let you down?
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