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Question Posted Wednesday July 30 2008, 5:30 pm

i kno a lot of these questions are asked.. but my boyfriend just fingered me the other night and i feel like i should repay him n give him a handjob.. but i have no idea what to do.. i mean i understand the overall concept you have to go up and down firmly but not to firm.. but thats not helping me.. i'm too nervous.

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solidadvice4teens answered Thursday July 31 2008, 1:05 am:
Like the person below said we can't go into detail. However, even if you did get that kind of info which you won't here or went to search engines it would be no good to you. Why? every guy is different when it comes to what is pleasurable and what isn't.

He's the expert ultimately on his anatomy and what he finds pleasurable so you should ask him so there's no awkwardness about this. Also if you are nervous or uncomfortable or unsure you should go about any of this that's fine.

It's indicator you maybe should wait for now and actually talk to your boyfriend first about your concerns. Let him know your idea was to reciprocate but didn't know if you were ready and didn't want to be embarrassed or in a situation both of you felt uncomfortable with.

Remember one thing you don't owe him anything sexually so don't put pressure on yourself to do something you really feel nervous about.

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LM answered Wednesday July 30 2008, 6:01 pm:
We can't go into detail on here 'cause there's underage users and it's against the rules.


However Google will tell you everything you needed/wanted to know, and then some. Search something like 'how to give a handjob' and you'll find tons of information and techniques.


Anyway, you can always ask your boyfriend what he prefers when you're doing it; you'll be able to figure out pretty easily what he likes.


-LM
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