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my boyfriend and me never talk anymore
this whole month we have barely talked.
he got kicked out of his house and his cell phone was disconnected so he stayed at a friends house (we live in different states by the way) and he would call me some nights and it was really hard cause we used to talk on the phone everynight and fall asleep on it together and then i kinda got used to tlaking to him like 3 times a week and then like 2 weeks later his aunt let him come back and he promised me we would tlak more. and that never happened. and then he just got a job and his hours are really lame. its from like 5pm-12am and im up till like 3 always and he told me a couple times he would call me after work. that never happened either. and when he would get home and would post bullitens and it would be like 1 in the morning saying lets chill ill come pick you up. and you wouldthink since we barely talk anymore he would take the time to talk to me instead of go with his friend which he is alaysss with. its like he doesnt have the time for me anymore. and its hurting me. and i told him that. and he doesnt seem to do much about it. we used to talk everyday alll the time. now im lucky if i even get to tlak to him for 5 minutes aday.
i spill my heart out for him alwayss and i get nothing in return except my heart breaking more and more each day. he always tells me im never going to lose him and he loves me so much.
i need help. i dont know what to do :[
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Oh man. This is why I will always believe that long distance relationships will never work out. When people have a long distance relationship, it normally only works out if your an older couple & have been dating for a couple years & fully trust eachother. I can really relate to you, because I dated a guy for 2 years but then found out I had to move at the end of one of the summers we was together. Well after two years of dating it was like omg i'm never gonna get to see him again. But I mean at first we did talk everyday. But as time goes on, you'll start talking less and less and eventually just all together. I'm sorry but that is normally how it works out. Don't worry though, if that does happen, you'll always be able to go out and look for someone again when your ready :] I hope your doing alright! ♥
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I hate to say it, but long distance relationships seldom work out. It's nice talking on the phone and sending letters, but it's hard when you don't have the ability for physical affection; holding hands, hugs, even a kiss on the cheek..the simple things like this keep a relationship going. Plus trust is ALWAYS an issue. It's hard not knowing where he is, what he's doing, who he's with. You have to have 100% trust in him, because his word is all you have. How often do you all get to physically see eachother? How long have you been going out? Answers to these questions would get you a more detailed response. The first thing you need to do is talk to him. One last time you need to tell him exactly how you feel. If he doesn't react appropriately, then I think it's time to call it quits. Maybe you should try moving on to someone who lives closer to you. It may not seem like the best thing for you now, but you'll see how much happier it will make you. Who knows, maybe you all will find yourselves together again, or maybe when the opportunity approaches you'll turn it down because you've found true happiness. I hope that all works out for you hun. I'm sure it will!!
<3 Leslie
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