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clingy boyfriend
im 17 years old and my bf is 18 we'v been 2gether for 9 months the first few weeks were exciting and i thought it was sweet that he made time to see me quite alot and before i knew it he told me he loved me. dont get my wrong i love him alot but recently things have become boring and its the usual everyday, he expects to see me every single day but we dont go out anywhere, theres no suprises or exciting trips, he doesnt even kiss me passionatly anymore. i try and make things exciting by sending texts and pictures but i dont get the replys i used to get. i think maybe he is so comfortable with me that its not exciting anymore and i have no idea what to say about him wanting to see me everyday all day and all night.
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Talk to him about him being clingy. That's the best way to address the issue.
And to be honest, a relationship can have its lulls but some things can pick it right back up again. This could be included in the clingy talk.
You could also do things out of the ordinary like go to the batting cages or mini golfing. Or go to the local hang out separately and pretend to be strangers. It could spark up the romance that drew you to each other in the first place.
cheers,
stargirl
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Sounds like you and your boyfriend have established a routine. That's normal. My advice: discuss the situation with him. Point out that you've established a routine and that you feel the two of you need work at bringing excitment back into the relationship. This could be a 'date night' where the two of you go somewhere that you've never been before. Also point out that you really miss the little things that he used to do to make you feel special. I know you've been giving hints, but sometimes you just have to be direct.
And if you feel that you need a little space and time to spend with your friends... Make this need known. It's okay for you to need time by yourself or away from him. Maybe the both of you should designate two days a week when you don't see each other. One day could be an opportunity for each of you to catch up on private time... While another day could be 'guys night out' for him and 'girls night out' for you and your friends.
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