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first timer here...
okay i have some questions. my bf and i are about to have sex for the first time. i am a little worried, only because i want to make it very special.
i was wondering if you have any tips on how to make it good/pleasurable/anything to keep in mind.
also, i'm a little worried about being able to feel completely comfortable. i know he wants to do 69, doggy style, other things that entail my lower half being near him. for 69, would my butt be like.. in his face? that seems kind of gross to me. same w/ doggy style, i dont want him looking up my butt. also, should i shave inside it?
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Kay, I'll do my best to answer all of your questions. =]
1. To make it more special, be sure to be in a bed or somewhere else comfy. Rushing it makes it WAY less romantic, as does being in uncomfortable area or somewhere unromantic like. I also think that being completely naked is more pleasurable because you're more intimate that way. You could light candles and make the room smell good. =]
2. Do what YOU want and what YOU think is more comfortable. Tell him to wait until a later time to try all of that stuff. You don't (TRUST ME) want to do all of the dirty stuff on your first time.
3. Shave your vagina area a little, or ask him how he likes it. =]
Hope i helped, let me know.
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first of all its much easier to answer a question for anyone if we know your age, its nice to know who we are talking to. anyway, you seem really confused. are you sure your ready and comfortable for this. if your worrying that much you probably aren't ready. i know you SO do not want to hear it but it sounds like your aren't. you should be able to talk about this stuff with your boyfriend, and you should be sexually educated.
i'm not ready to have sex and my boyfriend and i talk about EVERYTHING. we talk about positions. we talk about the shaving down there. and we talk about when we will be ready. i really hope your boyfriend isn't pressuring you into this. you just don't sound comfortable. before you have sex think about the consequences emotionally, physically, and psychologically.
there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. ever seen americas next top model. one of those girls waited til she was married and she was thrilled about it. (i watched it on tyra the other day lol)
TO ACTUALLY ANSWER THE QUESTION::
Facts and tips: pull out method is a HUGE risk of pregnancy, so why take it.
USE A CONDOM.
birth control would be great too.
you can most definately get pregnant underwater.
condoms protect against STDs but not COMPLETELY so make sure your both clean.
have fun!
most likely the first time won't be that great. i hear it is for the guy but not so much for the girl. but practice makes perfect. it might be a little painful the first time too but i hear it is not bad at all and the pain goes away soon after. if you don't want to do a certain position. don't.
most likely, he won't be seeing up your ass, but i don't know why you would care.
funtastic sex quiz: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
these are animated sex positions
69: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
doggy: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
other sex positions: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Good luck <3 sara/19yo :0 i mean :)
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