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Im Comfused.
ok so i was in love with this guy. Lets call him Zach. So i loved zach for like 5 weeks. But now that we have been going out for awhile...Things arent the same. And i need a guy who can make alittle more time for me. We have been together for 6 weeks. And we have hung out once. So im not the clingy type. I just need someone whose there more. Also...we have never talked on the phone. He will only text me. But he says he loves me. But as things go on...I start to feel bad saying i love you. I like him....But its begining to be less and less. Also im kind of a commentmentaphobic(sp? i dont even know if thats a word) But i cant stay in a relationship for very long. This is my longest. So do i break up, give it time, or what. HELP PLEASE!
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You need to talk to him. You can't go out if you have hung out only once, in 6 weeks. You shouldn't say you love him if you aren't sure. The thing you need to do is talk to him. So good luck and I hope everything works out for you!
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Seeing someone once in six weeks is completely unacceptable. If I was you, I wouldn't even consider that a relationship. From what I can tell, it basically consists of text messages.
You are definitely NOT clingy, and it makes sense that you would actually want to see the guy you are dating. I think it's time you talked to him and set some things straight:
1) You need to actually go on dates in order to be dating him. Tell him you need more time together. Decide on an amount of visits that seems reasonable to you - maybe once a week? Let him know what you want.
2) You cannot possibly love someone who you don't see. This is why you feel bad about saying it. Tell him you are uncomfortable with saying those three words before you completely mean them without a doubt.
Good luck.
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