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Same Guy
So, my friend has liked this guy for ages, and he knows it. It is so funny to see them around each other because he is totally not interested but shes always blushing when he looks at her. Anyways, me and her got into one of those wierd silent fights ? basically, we grew apart and she now has this intense hatred for me. I dont really care either way if im friends with her or not, but we were really tight last summer. So, me and her crush have been hanging out a lot and i think I'm starting to like him. But I'm afriad that she'll notice me flirting with him and get mad at me, even though its nothing personall, I just like him too. Im in such a sticky dilemma. Any suggestions?
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Well, first of all, you need to decide if she is your friend or not. If she is, your friendship could clearly use some sprucing up, and you should probably find another guy.
If on the other hand, you feel like the two of you are probably grown apart for good (or at least for a very long while) and no longer feel responsibility towards her as a friend, then go for it!
This all depends on how much you value the friendship.
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She cannot control you, and therefore, if you want to have no regard for her feelings, then try it out with him.
But I myself would take the nice route and try to maybe make up with her and see if she wouldn't mind if you dated him or something. If she says no, I would at least give her that. It's kind of a friend thing to do: not date each other's crushes.
--Jack
(16/m)
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