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what can i do when im not sure if he loves me or not


Question Posted Thursday July 17 2008, 3:01 am

Okay so I have a bf that I really do love.
But I'm not quite sure if he does back.
He says he does but then he does this.
He called me his ex's name
(but they were with each other for 2 years)
We also went to a theme park together and all these girls were hitting on him and he flirted back ALOT
and heres the worst..
HE ALMOST MADE OUT WITH A GUY
He means so much to me and I don't want to lose him but i don't know what to do.


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MrsCarter answered Thursday July 17 2008, 2:26 pm:
well i see what you mean seems like you got a little player on your hands ha ha.
but sometimes guys just say it, ive experienced that before alot! and maybe he jusst still hasnt gotten over his ex- girlfriend which really sucks=[
but i wouldnt fall too much in love with him because i did that before and that guy ended up breaking my heart with 6 other girls! so just dont get to deep with him
hope i helped any!

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scootermclisle answered Thursday July 17 2008, 11:51 am:
Talk to him about all this stuff. If you are worried that he isn't fully committed to you, then it may not be true love, it may be another kind of love.

I learned the components and different kinds of love in my psychology class.

DEFINITIONS.

Passion: Romantic feelings and sexual attraction.

Intamecy: Feelings of closeness as well as really knowing another person.

Commitment: Planning to be with another person forever and making this plan known to that person.

KINDS OF LOVE:

A classic "crush": passion

Deep liking: intamecy

Empty love: commitment

Romantic love: passion+intamecy

Friendship love: intamecy+commitment

Mindless love: commitment+passion

True love: passion+intamecy+commitment


That's straight out of my psyc textbook. So yeah, look it over, and maybe ask him what kind of love it is, just so that you are aware of what his true feelings are =)

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