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about the guy with the girlfriend problem
hi melody im the one who asked abou the guy likeing me even tho he already has a girl..
well i dont think thats the case with me....cuz even when they were goin out during school he would stare at me and when i looked at him he would turn away it was so akward but i think it was cause he liked me before they started going out but when they did strat to go out he still liked me and was confused and i think even now he still likes me!
but i dont really know and im to scared to ask him if he does it would just be to akward and if he says no ill be heart borken!
what should i do... should i wait to see what happens between him and his girlfriend? or when school starts just try to get to know him better.....he also said that he wished before him and his girlfriend started going out that he would have gotten to get to know me better
so what should i do?
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I hate to say it, but my solution to your problem is pretty straight forward and simple. It may not be easy to do, but it's easy to see it's the smartest choice. I know it's hard, but asking him is better than not asking him. The worst he can do is say he doesn't like you in that way. If you would have asked him out before this other girl did, you wouldn't be having this problem now. So you can't be shy with this. I know it's easier said than done, but get up the courage and just ask him. You obviously think he does, because you basically told me he did. So don't be stressed. Just get up the courage and DO IT! =]
I don't think you should interfere with his relationship with this girl. She's nothing but an innocent bystandard. She doesn't deserve to have her boyfriend talk to some girl behind her back. And though you & I don't see you as "some girl", that's exactly how she will see you.
So if you don't ask him if he likes you, this is what's best to do: No longer talk to him because you were to cowardly to see what could have been. And it would be rude to continue talking to a guy you truely liked behind this girl's back.
Doesn't sound fun, does it?
So just ask him and tell him how you feel.
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