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im so sorry this is so long..
I dont really know how to explain it and most peopel jsut dont udnerstand but 2 years ago i was with this guy for 10 months. i was in love and he was in love and it was our first time for both of us being in love. We were always that couple people looked up to and we barely fought but we broke up in the summer. It wasnt a horrible break up bu it wasnt great. during our relationship his exgirlfriend always triedto bother me and us and harass me because apprently she was in love with him. it got to the point where it broke us up. weeks after we broke up we started hooking up again for a couple months. we couldnt be away from eahcother. then we stopped and we both "moved on" we got with oher people but now it is 2 years later and i am still in lvoe with him. sometimes i ebtter than otehr days but i can say that there isnt oen day where i dont think about him. he has a girlfriend right now and tehyve been going out for 9 months and me and him still talk. about us about her about everything. i know he still has something for me and we are still exteremly close. its so hard when i know he wants it and i want it. but i cant and he cant becuase he has a gf. which i knwo sounds crazy because hello he has a gf of 9 months but u just have to be in the situatio. apprently he is craazy about her but i know that he does not need her. i knwo him so well and he is reli honest with me always and i know hes not in love. or at least the love we had. i think my question is wat do i do. if its been this long and we still think about each other i don't feel like i should forget it. it means something. i can see myself with him forever and we have talked about that too. but at the same time it hurt so much sometimes. what do u think i should do?
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It sounds like the two of you are more best friends than lovers- always there for each other, but not always there with each other. If you are dead set on dating him, tell him you are tired of this. Let him know how you are feeling, and make him choose between you and his current girlfriend. Tell him that if he doesn't pick you, the friendship has end. You have to make him understand that he can't have you back (even as flirtatious friends) once he's done with this girl/when things aren't going so well with her. Either that, or you could just surrender to being friends with him for life. Neither option is perfect, neither is horrible. Good luck =)
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Firstly, understand that if he REALLY wanted to be with you like you said then he wouldn't be with his gf for so long, he would've broken up with her before it got too serious! I think he has gotten over you, half-way at least, so I think you should move on. He has a gf and it would be a bitchy thing to try break them up, so tell him you still have feelings for him. Don't say if he wants you he should come get you, because he knows that, and you saying that gives the impression that you're desperate! So just make it simple and move on, straight away, give it some time, if he doesn't step-up to the plate then, he isn't worth it! :)
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