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im 15 and ive been questioning my sexuality a lot. ive never been with a girl but i feel more attracted to girls than guys. ive never been in a real relationship. ive hooked up with guys but i didnt like it.latley i been believing i was gay. i told my sister but she doesnt believe me. shes like your not gay u have never been with a girl and she just laughs at me. i want to go out with a girl but im nervous sence it would be my first and most likely the other girl has already been with other girls and i dont have any experience. im the kind of person who is really shy and quiet unless i know you. idk im just really confused
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It's okay. Find a homosexual girl you think is attractive, get to know her, and share your feelings. She'll understand you and you will feel a lot less alone. As far as the whole lack-of-experience issue, that most likely will be an issue for you. You may be pressured into doing things you just aren't ready for, or you might just feel plain nervous about everything. My advice is don't. There's no need to be nervous or take things quicker than you would like - being a lesbian does not automatically make you wild.
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At 15 you can't really be completely sure what you are. You really could go either way at this point in life and its only natural that you end up very confused and upset. You don't have to try being with someone to like them though. I've never been with a boy OR girl before, and I'm fairly certain that boys attract me. That's really what it depends on.
What I think you should do is look around for more people like you. Maybe a Gay-Straight alliance at your school, or you could Google and find a forum of people with similar problems. There are also support groups out there, and many different people out there that have went through and are going through the same things. And if you really are HURTING with the confusion, you could see a therepist or counselor.
Its the time in your life where confusion hits, that won't be able to change much. But if you find someone you can talk to about it, it may take a small load from your shoulders.
Hope that helps!
-Calli
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