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speaking to a friend
Ok long story short me and my friend fooled around (we didn't have sex, though) and I have no idea how to talk to him now.
I've been avoiding him ever since and I have no idea what to say to him.
Help?
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Avoiding the situation will just make it more awkward.
Just randomly crack a joke about what happened.
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doing anything intimate weather actual sex or just messing around can be awkward before during and,or after doing it.that should be why you do it.not because of pleasure,but wrather you are really comfortable enough around that person to where you don't really feel that awkward feeling towards them anymore.
as for talking to him,just tell him exactly how you feel about him and the situation at hand.don't worry about sounding foolish,if he cares for you he will respect your opinion and not think badly of you saying something.if not then he's probably not worth being friends or anything else with.
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Next time you see him, just be honest with him. If you're feeling awkward, let him know you may need some space for awhile to try to get back to normal. Ask him if he feels awkward about it. If he does, give him some space.
Talk about what happened, and what you both want to do about it. Do you want to continue? If you do, please be safe about it. Do you want to stop? Then do so. Do you need space? Then give each other space.
Communication is really key in this situation. Whether you want to communicate now or next week or next month, maybe just let him know that he'll know when you're ready to talk about this all, because you obviously can't avoid talking about it eventually unless you move away or something ;]..
--Jack
(16/m)
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