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It is about falling for someone.
Hello,
I am from India. Very recently I met someone in my office whom I liked so much that I could not stop myself from falling for him, knowing that he is married. I have conveyed my feelings to him and also told him that I understand we can't have a life together since he is married. We are quite friendly to each other but whenever he talks about his wife, I feel hurt, don't know why. What do I do?
Thanks.
SR.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Good lady, lessons come from where you least expect them. Love was never meant to be kept to yourself, it was meant to be given and given freely. I am a Spiritualist, I believe in the strength of the spirit and that we are suppose to love people. I have the most pure love for you right now and if I could, I would give you a great hug, but it would not mean I would trade you for my wife.
In our lives we will and have loved many spirits, but you cheapen that love by thinking it can only be given to your spiritual mate. This time around there is someone for him and another for you, but why must you not love him? Why can not someone else love him too and he love someone else? This is where the world falters today, we are all so short sighted when it comes to love and we can't take it for what it is.
Love and sex are two separate things, hugs, wanting to be around someone and thinking them special, there's nothing wrong with that. Take your relationship for what it is, don't think it has to be more, just be glad you have found it and go out and look for more, they are out there waiting for you.
Get to know your spirit dear one, understand that your life is suppose to be full of love, expect it to be, live it as if it is.
With much love,
Gilbert Mar
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