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'support' the older tradition!!
So im asian and my parents are quite old fashioned, i have an older brother and i feel that my parents just take his side and believe whatever he says just because he is older than me, we have a 7 year age gap! he is SO rude and he is dating a girl from a different race, which is SO bad as you know. We are hindus. And so, now i don't know what to do. Sometimes, when my brother and i fight, he goes and tells my parents before i do about it, and so they hear HIS story first, and so when I try and tell my story, they either don't listen or, they just have a way to change it! and make it like it's my fault! sometimes i just REALLY hate my life, because it just is SO unfair! i HATE it!! it makes me cry SO frequently! and i am SO hurt by this! dont I have some sort of right?! and i can't talk about hman rights and that stuff, because they sort of don't believe in it, plus we aren't in the US, where it is important or anything. So now what do i do?! there is like NO justice! i think they just support my brother because he is older and all that jazz!! what about me?!
HELP!! :(
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Try talking to your parents outside of a situation where you're trying to tell them your side of a story. Obviously when he's not around.
Tell them that you feel it's unfair that they automatically believe his side of the story. Tell them that you may not always be right, but you think they should at least listen to what you have to say.
Approach them in a mature matter and in a way that shows you aren't complaining, but rather that you're questioning why they don't at least listen to your side.
--Jack
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okay so i think you shouldnt be worried about your brother because hes starting to begin his own family now so just think of it as...okay its on me now what should i not do to change everyone else.
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