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guy trouble
15/f
okay well recently me and my friend hung out with some guys in our grade ... we were really looking to hang out with some new guys because our old group of friends we hung out with was kinda making us feel left out so these guys we hung out with are in our grade and all .. so we hung out at there house and we split into teams to play manhunt at night ... me and my friend were the only girls and we both were on oposite teams.. and i wound up with this boy by ourselves and we were talking and stuff and everything was fine and all and i got his number and stuff and then later during the week he called me to hang out but i was busy and then he called me at night once.. so we were talking on the phone for about 3 hours like late and we were just talking about random stuff and then at some parts it got quiet and akward because we didnt know what to say to each other.. but then he started asking me personal questions like - how far have you gone with a guy, do you think im good looking, how far would you go with me, what do you like about me - just stuff like that and i didnt want to be mean so i told him i thought he was good looking and that hes cute and funny and he told me that he thinks im cute and he likes my hair and that he thinks i have a nice ass.. okay i like the compliments and all but i kinda feel like he just wants to do stuff with me instead of actually becoming my friend first and i dont know what to do.. so then last night he called again and he asked me even more things like - how big are your boobs, how much hair do you have downstairs, have you ever fingered yourself - things like that and i was kinda embaressed answering them and all and i couldnt think of anything to ask him back and now i kinda regret answering some of them because i might not even be ready to do things with him because ive never even had my first kiss and i mean he told me hes been to 3rd base so idk ... i mean i really like how hes really nice and funny and cute but i just dont know about the whole rest of the situation .. any advice? .. thanks in advance
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First, I want you to know that you don't have to do ANYTHING with this guy if you don't want to. If you're uncomfortable [which I'm gathering that you are and it's totally fine], I would let him know it. Tell him you don't want him asking these personal questions anymore, and that you're not interested in "going to 3rd base" with him.
If he keeps bothering you, just stop talking to him. You don't have to put up with a sleezy guy like this.
I hope this helps =]
-Laura. (16-f)
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