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Cont. My boyfriend is ignoring me!


Question Posted Friday July 11 2008, 9:45 am

Jehmehh,
Hey dis is Lil' Momma again concerning the problem with my bf ignoring me. U kno I think it's him acting stupid like going through one of his male fits. Right now we're sort of taking a week's break that way the whole thing can air out. And doing this break he sent me a text msg. on my cell phone explaining that he is wrong for ignoring me and he's going to change. He also said that we just have to deal with each other, and he asked if I still want to be with him because he still want to be with me. I think that we're just young in love and have to work with each other stubbornness. Do you think that's what it is, because we're not tired of each other. We can't get enough of each other we always want to see each other even when we have a arguement that's how bad we don't want to seperate.I guess I'm going to see if he changes and if I don't see any change then like I told him we won't be together anymore no matter how much it hurts me or him. And the part of giving him his own medicine, that's what exactly I had in mind. I just want him to feel the way I felt. So, what do you think is all of this even worth it?


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Jehmehh answered Friday July 11 2008, 12:28 pm:
I wouldn't give up on him just yet. Guys do go through periods like that and, while it can be extremely annoying and frustrating, it's like they can't even control it. The fact that you took a break and let him know how serious you are about the situation, and from that he seemed to realize that he was wrong and is trying to change, shows that he really does care. If you guys are both stubborn sometimes that can cause little problems like that, but I think that in the big picture if you two really do care about each other and want to be together despite your flaws, then I wouldn't let that stand in the way. You two obviously want to be together and aren't tired of each other, so why hurt yourself and him by ending something that could be great? I think you guys could work things out and be happy together.

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