I ended things with my boyfriend because it was just too serous for the time being (both 14).
& its been a month & ive been pretty much fine. But yesterday & today ive noticed how much i miss him. Theres pictures of him all over facebook, his yahoo status was "do you think about me too somtimes?" & i just wanted to IM him like, yeah i do & i miss you! I havent talked to him in a whole month & i miss him. Any help getting him off my mind? Just logging off facebook & yahoo wont help because in the middle of tennis class i just want to call him. I know if i get over this i can get over the relationship but i just need help forgetting about him. In 2 weeks my closest friends are leaving to camp & me & him will mainly be the only ones left in the city (i have other friends that willbe here to hang out with but theyr not my closest you know?) & im worried if i dont have somthing to keep me away i wont be able to.
Thanks so much!
Additional info, added Wednesday July 9 2008, 8:28 pm: Even if i dont see him everywhere, theres love everywhere! Ah its driving me crazy. & i want to find someone new to keep my mind occupied but i cant find a guy that compares to what i had you know? I miss being with someone i like so much but the whole reason i ended it is because i liked him so much. & my problem really is that i want somthing that isnt best for me. & so even if hes not on my mind, it is & i still want it. Any advice?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BrokenWings answered Wednesday July 9 2008, 5:18 pm: Talk to him, theres no reason why you can't be friends, especially if you were friends before you got together.
If you were close, it sounds silly but its going to be easier to get over each other with the help of each other, rather than just starving yourself of someone who's been a big part of your life.
PinkVsBlue answered Wednesday July 9 2008, 1:09 pm: Its normal to miss him. It really is. Just remind yourself why you ended it in the first place it might help you.
Then you need to keep yourself distracted, it is the best thing to do. Now while your closest friends are still here go out with them as much as you can. Have fun. You need to have fun and when they go away still go out with your other friends even though you aren't so close with them!
Also reading, finding some hobbies and taking part in them is a good way to distract yourself. Also yes not going on face book and yahoo will help a bit! You can live with out them! :)
Its hard now but it will get much easier and its already been a month! :)
Goodluck! Just remember the best way to distract yourself is to have fun!
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