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My boyfriends a PDA-aphobe


Question Posted Monday July 7 2008, 4:26 am

15, f

So, i've been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months now. He's great and i've never been in such a good relationship. The only thing is he refuses to show ANY- and i mean ANY signs of public affection. He won't let me show pictures of us, He won't hold my hand if anyone else is around and he doesn't act like we're a couple. I know he likes me a lot and he's not ashamed of me, but i don't know what to do about it. I don't want to pretend like we're not a couple.


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karenR answered Monday July 7 2008, 12:25 pm:
You need to talk to him and see why he
is acting this way. I can understand
not wanting to be hanging all over
someone in public but holding hands
isn't a big deal.

Since he doesn't even want you showing
pictures, my guess is he is hiding
your relationship from someone. Perhaps
his parents who may not want him dating.
That could be embarrassing for him to
tell you about, so ask straight out.

If that isn't the problem then you may
want to reevaluate your relationship
with him. He isn't likely to change. :)

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Brandi_S answered Monday July 7 2008, 11:40 am:
Well, maybe he's just the type of guy who likes to keep his personal life private. There's nothing wrong with that.

ygs-30/f

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CrazyInLove14 answered Monday July 7 2008, 6:20 am:
Well, I agree with you. If you two have been going out for 5 months already then he should at least be able to hold your hand in public. Maybe he is just a little shy when it comes to all this stuff. Just try to talk to him and he will eventually come around. Tell him that you really want to be able to have a good time with him in public........
Best of luck to you!!

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