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stuck between two
So I found the girl I know I want to marry, shes basically me in a beautiful female form. But she goes to UF and thats kind of far; I don't do long distance well. Here though I met a guy and he is the most genuine person I met and we could just talk for hours and he keeps my interest so well. I'm just so stuck between the two, I could see myself with either. I just don't have a clue as to what I should do. In the future I want my own kids and not a surrogate mom so that means I should choose her?
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i'm going to guess you are a guy, since "having your own kids" would require a surrogate mother.
(although they would still be YOUR kid, since it will be your sperm..and the technology available 12 years from now will be twice as advanced, you never know what may be possible)
so without knowing either of them, it sounds like one offers immediate happiness, but a potential compromise in your longterm goals.. while the other has just a promise of what could be. It seems like you have put a lot of thought into which one you think you SHOULD choose, but what about the one you WANT to choose?
long distance is hard to do, i've been there before, and personally, i don't recommend it for more than a few months especially if you don't have plans to move closer together soon.. it is also scary because a long distance is a different relationship than a non-long distance, even if it's with the same person!
the most important thing is that you care about both people, that you realize that you are going to have to make the decision between them as carefully as you can to make sure you still have both of them in your life.
If you would like to tell me more about each relationship, i could give you a few more things to think about :)
Otherwise, i hope you find whatever you are looking for.
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