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Should I Tell my Haitian Parents that I have a Boyfriend even if im 17 ?
Hi my Name is Sohpia
I'm 17 Years old ,Im a new senior at...
And I have a Boyfriend ,Im afraid to tell my Peeps that I do have one,because tell you the truth he's American I cant say that they dont like Americans they just think me being with another Haitian is better(SIKE).I liked this boy ever since last year and now that I have him I dont wanna lose him because of what my parents say ,he told his parents about me, he even told his Grandmother now she wants to meet me.If my parents find out that I have a boyfriend ,no boyfriend till im done with college,So Should I tell my HAITIAN parents that I have an American Boyfriend ?
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Really its completely up to you and which one you would rather face. Would you rather deal with your parents about having a American boyfriend. Or break up with him and bother with looking for another guy. Its understandable that they want you to be with someone of your own race, but you are given a choice, a very hard one at that. And though either way, its going to impact you pretty severely unless you can manage to convince your parents somehow some way.
I believe you should tell them though. Purely my opinion. Because things hidden for too long tend to show up at really bad times. And hiding it longer only worsens the dilemma. Plus it gives you a chance to explain and compromise between you and your parents. Hopefully yours are stubborn or its going to take a lot to get your point down if you tell them.
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