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16 years old. never been in a relationship and never been kissed. not trying to sound stuck up or anything... but i don't think my appearance or personality is the problem. i don't know... is that weird? because it seems like i am the only one out of everyone i know who is in this type of situation...
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I know how that feels. Its a terrible feeling, like no one actually likes you. And then you kinda get desperate.
Well, I want you to know that your not the only one that either feels or have felt that way. I personally don't know what it is that causes this, but I do know that its hard to deal with after awhile.
But trust me, its actually way better to wait then to rush anything. I mean, sure, if you get into several relationships through your life, you'll prolly have more experience in them. But it only makes things worse.
Its better to wait life is going to push way ahead. If you date someone way older than you, before you know it, they'll be in some out of state college and you have to find someone knew. If you date someone really young, its going to be the same reason, only your the one ahead. Other things like change, family, interests, and other things will affect early relationships, especially at your age.
Of course, if you really want to build a relationship with someone, you can always ask.
I know its actually better if the guy asks because its like some sort of rule in dating or something like that, but if the guy won't ask the girl is going to have to. Plus, I would like to note its better to date someone you know and trust with your life and world, than some hot or popular guy.
Otherwise, be proud your single while it lasts. You don't have to deal with as much drama and problems as those in relationships, that would have never worked in the first place, have to deal with all the time.
You have an entire lifetime ahead of you, so don't waste it thinking that just because you've never been kissed that your not good enough for society. Or that you HAVE to be in a relationship. Because there are much more important things than that at the moment.
Sorry for the lengthiness, I get very carried away and like to go to detail too often. Even though Ima "Keep-it-simple-stupid" kind of person. But just know your not alone, and you have other things to worry about and more than enough time for relationships.
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