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F/15
About 5 days ago I was will some friends and a guy that I had never met started texting one of my friends. He had seen me on Myspace on my friends page(They knew eachother from sports)And he started asking them if i had a boyfriend and me and my bf at the time had been fighting a lot (but the fighting you do when you care about someone a lot) and rarely got to see eachother anymore because he had been gone a lot. So they told him its complicated. I saw him later that night at a hockey game and then afterwards we went to a friends to watch a movie we ended up a holding hands but no big deal right?
The next day me and my bf got into another huge fight and me and the new guy had been texting all day. So me and my bf decided we should break up that night because of our frequent fighting. Me and the new guy texted the rest of the weekend, and on sunday night we hung out and we ended up almost making out, and we have plans to hang out tomorrow. Hes like the sweetest guy ever and I feel like we can talk about anything. My ex has been calling me a lot just to talk but we had agreed to be friends, so I understood why. Tonight hover he called me at about midnight to tell me that he missed me, i really didn't know what to say back but oh...
He told me hes still hooked on me and hes never been like that with another girl. Hes trying to change for me I can tell by his voice and what hes saying but who knows how long that will last. So now I'm tied between two...
An old caring love but with fights?
or a new love with what looks like a bright future?
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It's really up to you. There are merits to both relationships, like you said there at the end. On the one hand, you have a guy that you've been with for a long time, that you're really comfortable with, and you know really well- but you fight a lot. On the other hand, you have a new guy that is easy to talk to and is really fun and sweet. It seems like you need to examine your feelings for your old boyfriend before you get in too deep with the new guy. How much do you love him? Do you genuinely want to make things work out? Are the fights really serious, or are they stupid ones that you could try and work on phasing out of your relationship? If you really feel like you'll be sad without your boyfriend, you should at least give him another chance. You could even stay friends with the new guy- but I'd say before you go further with him, you should think about trying to work things out with your old boyfriend- and try to cut down on the fighting. C:
~Becky
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