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i dont know whether i should try or just let go..
i met this guy named "joe" about 3-4 months ago, and we had that instant connection.. but hes real shy. i went out of town one weekend, and when i came back we were all at a friends hanging out and he brought another girl to the kickback.. she was his DATE.. i was hurt because he had been saying he was interested in me.. and we had a "raincheck" to go get ice cream.. after he brought her i figured eh, i wont waste my time.. its cool. i liked him anyway but one of his friends who i also hang out with, had interest in me, and always wanted to hang out. we didnt have the same intentions but nothing really happened either. we just talked and were, well friends. well "joe" is in the army so he had parties at his house for like a week straight before he left for part of the summer..his parents were outta town so he just had people over to play beer pong and hang out.. well i went the first night and met up with all of our friends.. and the other guy who was into me was there too of course, and him and i played beer pong against "joe" and our friend daniel. Well you could tell "joe" was frustrated watching me and our friend play together.. and "joe" made a comment like "sloppy seconds" even though he never had me, i still got irritated..all night we looked at eachother and just gave that look like im mad at you but i want you. haha.. i didnt want it to be like this.. i wanted him and i to try and see how things go... well i go home, and that night "joe" text me saying it was interesting to see me there with our friend.. that he never didnt like me and that girl was just a friend.. well the 2nd night i went there and he told me in person, he was interested.. not enough to LIKE me.. but he was into me, and what not.. well he kissed me.. and i kid you not.. best kiss of my life. i waited for that since the moment i met him.. and it happened.. i stayed over at his house twice that week.. no sex.. just conversation, cuddling and making out.. but i never felt that comfortable.. hes gone now.. and we both decided that "whatever happens happens.." i remember him telling people he didnt want a girlfriend.. which had me thinking.. and i was also told he had been saying things were "awkward" between us..and that had me really thinking.. and i remember towards the end of the week, i didnt stay over, we didnt kiss, and we hardly talked. hes been gone two weeks now, and i've talked to him once, but hes busy so its understandable. however he text me, i didnt say anything.. so he thought of me? and it was a good conversation.. i leave for the military too 3 days before he gets back and he said "dang it sucks that we miss eachother by a few days" and i said "yeah i know i'm kinda bummed about that :/ but hopefully time goes by quick".. we wont be seeing eachother til the end of november when im all done. its quite complicated.. but i truly care for this guy. i've been in serious relationships.. i've experienced dating.. now im not saying this guys "the one" but i feel like if i just dont try, i'd be REALLLY missing out..
i have doubts about if he really is into me, or if him seeing one of his friends trying to get with me made him jealous.. i dunno.
i need words of wisdom..something..
i keep stressing myself out. im trying to go by what him and i said the whole "whatever happens happens" but man its hard.
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hmmm, well if you guys like eachother, then you shuld definitely try. i mean just see how things are when you get back. theres really nothing that you can do while your away. if you feel comfortable enough send him a letter! nothing so cute though, because he might not think about it that way. hah you never know. but just see how things are when you get back. dont stress it too much, becausae you wont be able to see him and that will make you go crazy!
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