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something gone wrong
ok i need help
i really dont know what to do
ok so my best friend b decided to talk to the guy i likes friend n. she wanted to see if she could find out anything and set up stuff to hang out. so i could hang with the guy i like. well things went really wrong. for me that is. because the girl and my best friend talked for about 2 hours and the girl was already asking her to hang and spend the night and stuff. which is ok i mean cuz my best friend would bring me too. then today the girl invited my best friend to go hang with her and the guy i like and a couple other friends. my friend didnt end up going, she couldnt. it just hurts cuz i wanted to be the one invited places. and i dont want to tell my best friend not to go hang out with this girl. but i dont know what to do. by the way, they girl is going out with the guy i likes brother and i have like the guy for 3 years. please help. i dont know what to tell my friend. i dont know what to do and i just want it all to go away. please help.
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ouch. i could see how it would hurt that you wanted to be that girl. but can i tell you that the way to get to this guy isn't going through your best friend making friends with his best friend and his friends, which will eventually lead to him. if you've known the guy for three years, why not just become friends with him? that's the real way to build a reltionship. YOU need to talk to HIM, don't involve everyone else in the world. i'm sure your friend means well, but it's your relationship. you just have to take charge. as for your friend, let her hang out with this guys best friend. she has that right. and maybe you can go with them places sometimes. but that's her relationship. don't dive into these things too fast or get heartbroken over things too soon. it happens to too many girls and detroys theis spirits. just, make friends and don't take things too personally. you can get over this conflict, and you'll get over others. just talk to your friend and let everyone live thier own lives, including you. well, good luck.
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You should say to your best friend that if hers friends don't appreciate you in front of your best friend and your best friend isn't doing anything about it then why are you guys even friends.I'm not saying to make her choose but she needs to understand that her friend isn't treating you right. Just let your friend know how you feel and it will be okay.
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