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second date?


Question Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 9:08 pm

This guy and i work together. Im 18, he's 20.

We kinda had our first date and that was going downtown and going to a movie after getting to know each other after a while talking downtown.

We still dont know each other too much. He said he had a good time and gave me a kiss on the head before leaving. We both had a good time from what i know.

I asked him to hang out tomorrow, but what should we do? I think ill have to decide bc i asked him to hang out. I dont want him to spend too much money because he will spend money all because he's the guy.

I was thinking just going to the park, him and I. Just hanging out and getting to know each other more or just spending time together but I dont want it to be boring at all! How do I or would I keep the date entertaining at a park?

I guess I just need some ideas on making this date as good as the other one so he knows that I'd like to see more of them. Also I just want us both to enjoy ourself but our date will probably be at 6 in the afternoon also if that makes a difference.

Thanks for your help!


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Cux answered Monday June 30 2008, 11:42 pm:
I know this is already 5 hours after the fact, but here's an idea for another date:

If you didn't end up going to the park, you could do that and maybe have a picnic together. That doesn't involve cooking, really, just some minor preparations. Like the person below said, the best way to guy's heart is through his stomach ;]

Maybe just hang at your place and watch some TV or a movie or something. Really, it doesn't have to be much. If you think about it too much and plan too much, it gets to be overdone and that's easily noticed. And it's a huge turn off to most guys. Just stick to simple things ;]

--Jack
(16/m)

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sanwookong answered Monday June 30 2008, 6:09 am:
Why don't you try cooking for him?
I know its cliche but it is a fact that tah way to a guy's heart is through his stomach. And besides, guys like that stuff.

If you don't want to (or can't) cook and your worried about him losing money then try and be creative. It just doesn't have to be a walk in the park. If he likes sports then why not ask him to play badminton, volleyball or even basketball with you. If he likes reading then a date in the library wouldn't be a bad idea as long as you can get to know each other a bit more.

Hope this helps.

Good luck!!!

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