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Hello, I recently had sex for my first time on Sunday, the 22nd.
I bled, A LOT and he said I was extremely tight.
Well to my question, its been about 4 days and I'm still in pain down there. I have bloody discharge, and it hurts when I pee. I also have had no appetite for the 4 days and when I do try to eat I just feel really sick, and feel like I'm going to throw up.
How long did you hurt after your first time & is this normal or should I be worried ?
Thanks so much
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- I still remember the night I lost my virginity, It was very painful &
sometimes now even when I have sex, It's still painful. I don't recall on
how long I stayed sore though, Not long i'm sure.
I didn't bleed any my first time, because That layer of skin of mine
also known as the "cherry" had already been popped & I just spotted
when that happened.
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My first time was very painful, but it was short lived. I was sore for a day or two, but by the end of the week, I was completely fine and felt like I was back to normal.
I'm sure all people react differently, since everyone's body is made different. But the fact that you are nauseous and have had a bloody disharge isn't a good sign. Take it easy for a few days, wear loose fitting clothes, and if things aren't better in a week or two, you should probably let someone know.
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It depends on the person. I bled a lot my first time too. Being tight is very normal. You could have torn a bit, especially if you weren't really ready and most teenage boys don't worry overmuch about making sure their partner is ready. The feeling sick could be from guilt for having sex, regret for having sex or just sheer panic at the thought you could be pregnant. If you are close to starting your period you could have discomfort from the sexual activity that is increased by the fact you are close to starting your period. I wouldn't worry at this point.
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