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i feel like she is dead,
heyy peoples... sorry this is long, im kindov and asshole soo its probably not worth your time and its probably super boring soo ya...watever
soo i met this girl about a week before school ended, we met completely by accident, after school because i had missed the bus home and she was there because of something bad happening (dont want to go into that)
we both sat there, in the hall, alone, and talked. she had some emotional problems and i talked her through it. about an hour later, she had to leave so i walked her to her car and we exchanged numbers.
that night i met her at the local "hang out" town square (its like an outdoor mall) and we saw a movie together and really took a liking to eachother.
about every night since then, we talked on the phone for hours about how things were going, etc. i felt like we really had a connection and that i could tell her anything and she could tell me anything.
the next week we hung out every day i guess. it was great. one of the times, we went to a movie and i was rubbing the back of her neck with my fingertips and she started to do it back to me and i felt her kiss my neck (WOAA!!) she then wispered into my ear, meet me over there(while pointing to the stairs)
the next thing i knew, i was making out with the girl of my dreams, she is beautiful, smart, nice, loving,....just AMAZING. i honestly couldnt think of any negative things about her
since then, things were going great, they only got better and better. we were getting closer and closer...being with her was the only thing i wanted to do.
thats kinda what started it all...things were at the point where they really couldnt get better. then she was talking about going on a trip to spain, it was ten days and when she got back, i would be gone for the summer.(my parents are divorced so i have to spend the summer at my dads)
so we went out on our last day together (until summer is over). it was perfect and it ended with about 10 minutes of making out. it was amazing how she wanted it, just as much as i did. it was like i was finally in my place, nothing could make me sad(except for losing her of course) i felt invincible.
to make an even longer story short(er), she leaves to spain, 10 days later she gets back and nothing, she dosent wright, she dosent call...watever.
so here i am texting her, and she is just giving me dead end answers. i would say -heyy!! how was spain and she says -good, thats all. so i asked -is everything ok? do you not want to talk or something? and she says-im hanging out with a friend. thats the end of that
a few days later i texted her again and say, -hiiya, she said,- sorry i couldnt text last time, i was busy, and i said- its cool and she replys -ttyl im watching a movie
now im thinking, what the hell is going on....woww i cant believe she just did that. but me being as patient as i am, i just tryed to ignore it and move on. i didnt want to seem desprate or like a stalker so i kinda left it alone.
since then, she dosent really talk to me, i said hi on myspace and she just ignored it i guess. she never calls anymore....that makes me...sad?
what has happened to this relationship that i thought would last forever? i have no idea what went wrong, she has been back for weeks now, i never talk to her, she never talks to me. its like she is dead.
opinions? god, i miss her soo much.
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Ok, well you say she doesn't call you anymore. Have you called her recently?
I mean, if nothing else, a little closure would be nice.
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Well from what you've mentioned above. It doesn't sound like.. you guys even dated that long? Maybe her vacation to Spain away from you - made her realize that she didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. But she can't find it in herself to tell you. And when girls get short with words. It usually means that they are annoyed, and in her case probably.. uninterested. I would just leave her alone, because IF you guys do get back together its not going to help if you keep badgering her. I guess you have to remember she has friends too, try hanging out with yours, and forget about her for a while, keep your mind on other things. If its meant to be.. things will work out, and if not you've already got your answer.
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