This is pretty difficult to ask, but I think I should. So, let's say you sent someone nude pictures, but you are 16, and they are 19. And then you never spoke to them again. What would you do? Because I'm worried that they'll put them on the internet, although I don't see why if I never did anything mean to them.
But if they haven't put them online, then there's nothing I can do, or want to do. I mean I really don't care if they have the pictures, only if other people do.
I'm not really sure what I'm asking by the way. But I know that if they did release them, then I could probably sue them for lots of money right? I mean at least there's a bright side? I know what I did was incredibly stupid, so I'm kind of trying to make myself feel better about it. I don't know? Just give me any advice!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? venom_97 answered Wednesday June 25 2008, 7:43 am: If you sent the pictures electronically, you will have to wait it out to see the outcome of it. Do you still have the person's contact information? If so, send them an email advising that you aren't allowing consent of selling, distributing or posting of these pictures and that you are requesting the pictures are disgarded immediately. You have no way of knowing if this was one or not. Advise this person that you have blind carbon copied your attorney unless you wish to get your parents involved,and they know a real attorney to copy on this email. Upon doing this, request a return email response within 3 days, acknowleding disgarding of the pictures. If they were atual pictures, you may ask that they are returned without duplication within 3 days, advise that if you get no response in 3 days, pertaining to the content of your email, that you will escalate the matter and persue it legally. I bet you get somewhere then. I would tell my parents. They will be upset with you, but explain that you made a mistake and need help to be proactive in preventing some possible BS.
PLEASE do not do anything like this again. We all live, and learn from our mistakes. It's not the mistake, it's the lesson that learned that counts. [ venom_97's advice column | Ask venom_97 A Question ]
ks19610k answered Wednesday June 25 2008, 7:24 am: Your 16 and hes 19 right? Do you realize the problems you could cause to someone who is not a minor!! life isnt all about you and you can change the dumbest thing youll probably ever do again plus [ ks19610k's advice column | Ask ks19610k A Question ]
notyourmomsadvice answered Wednesday June 25 2008, 3:20 am: In some states the person receiving the pictures could be brought up on statory rape whether you had sex with them or not. It depends on your state laws. Why are you taking nude pictures of yourself at 16? If you plan to be a porn star that's one thing but otherwise keep your clothes on in front of the camera until you are in a committed relationship.
Again if they publish the pictures it depends on the state you are in. Under 18 they can be charged on a federal level if they post them since you are under 18 and it could push the envelope for child pornography depending on if the investigating agency decided to be sticklers for the law. Legally you should have to give consent for the pictures to be used in anyway to make money but since you are under 18 you can not legally enter into a contract so your parents would have to give permission. [ notyourmomsadvice's advice column | Ask notyourmomsadvice A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.