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2 of mii best friends who are best friends like me!


Question Posted Tuesday June 24 2008, 11:33 pm

13/f
this is sorta complicated, im gonna try to make it less like dat.....ok so....my best guy friend ever, ryan, well, we kinda lost contact after graduation and then we saw each other in the streets with the other best guy friend, dave, whom ive also lost contact with and yea then we got bak on contact, they got my number, and yeah all of dat. so then we all go on group dates with our old groupo of friends when we were in elementary. so yea, it was a shock to me when i found out both ryan and dave liked me. they knew they both liked me too. i dont noe wat to do...ryan just asked me out, i cant go out with him, ill hurt daves feelings...wat can i do?


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cloudy_conscience answered Tuesday June 24 2008, 11:45 pm:
Well this is quite a difficult situation, you can either pick one of them and risk hurting the other one or go with your gut and pick the one you really like. But considering that they already know that they both like you, they should both know that one of them is going to get chosen and the other isn't. Maybe you should sit them both down and talk to them, let them know that you don't want to hurt either of them but you want them to know that you can only chose one. Get their feedback then decide what you want to do. Which one do you like more? Who do you get along with better? Who makes you laugh? Is it worth hurting one by chosing the other? Ask yourself these things before you decide.

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