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FROM:She didn't get grossed out when she saw two women kiss?
I agree what you are saying. I honstely want to get over her but her flirting and body language just pulls me back in. i say to myself "dont let go from her just yet she might like you in return" but i push myself to not wait. i am tried of this game i am playing with her. i mean last year i told her my feelings. she said she not sure what genre she likes to be with and not ready for a relationship. months later i went to a party and met some guy. i told her about him and she got jealous. i told her nothing happen we just talked.
she then said "time will tell for the both of us"
she told me she was jealous of my last two boyfriends in high school. thats when i ask her 3 weeks later face to face if she likes me she keep ingoring the question and changing the sujbect till the 4th time i ask she then shook her head no.
NOW we are still playing that game of confusion. i ask her again over the phone texting her if she likes me and thats when she reply "not as of now..." (that was in early june.)i really am tried of these games i want to hear her say "NO" i want her to tell me why. but i am afriad she might ignore my question like she did before.
i think she is afraid to admit it and scared if we hook up what if it doesnt work out.(i agree)
our friend mandy hangs with us all the time and she always notices how lara flirts with me. she think that she likes me but in denial.
i am starting to not care anymore because lara and are close friends BUT i feel some space between us which we both ignore. i want to me other girls and still be best friends with lara but i think if i do she might get jealous again.
i need to talk to her about this but i dont know how to bring it up. i want to ask why she flirts with me and why she said not as of now.
i do want to ask her why she was jealous of my last two boyfriends but i rememebr i ask her that before she deny what she said that she was just being "over protective" and her relpy was "i want to know them first before you get with them" which doesnt make no scents because you get with someone THEN you interounce them to your friends and family.
so i am confused too.
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Do you feel that it is possible that your friend is only leading you on?
Many people are so selfish they actually lead an interested person on in case they cannot find anyone else. What I mean is, you may be the girl's back-up plan when she feels she NEEDS to be with someone and she cannot find someone "better" than you.
Many, many people do this. It's totally wrong and I think it causes a lot of pain in the end. I did answer a question like this before and you may want to check it out and give it some thought:
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My question is located at the very bottom of the answers so you'll have to scroll down a bit to see it.
The girl you're interested in is probably really not interested in you. I think it's wrong if she's stringing you on for back-up purposes, and if this is true you need to tell her that you won't be used for such things.
Flirting with you is only causing you distress and I'm sure she knows it by now. It sounds like she doesn't want you to date so you will always have to be stuck on her. Seriously, some people are just like this--I know a few myself.
Her stating that she is jealous over your boyfriends and such but is not interested in you is to keep you confused. She wants you to not date so you cannot get over her and she doesn't have to worry about not having you if there comes a time that she feels she MUST have someone. Like I said, she doesn't REALLY want you but if it comes down to it, she'll "settle" for you instead of being alone. That day may come soon or it may be YEARS--that's why she's playing this game of jealousy and flirtatiousness.
I hope you figure out what's going on with your friend. I know you're so confused, as I would be, but you need to see what she really is. She's causing you a lot of problems that you shouldn't have to deal with at your young age.
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