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tips on keeping you in his head
I wanna make him like me alot and people say just be yourself blah blah I am but does anyone have like tips on things to say to keep him thinking about you are how far to go with him without looking easy or maybe even some good flirting tips bottom line I want to stay in his mind and have him thinking about me like crazy but..I need tips from ya'll on how to do it...please...he;
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Pretty much everything cux said but sometimes, you just gotta come out and ask. 'Hey, I like you, wanna go out?' I'll tell you what did it for me one day, I obviously didn't know this girl liked me. She threw all the hints out there but I was clueless. Well, she one day sat really close to me, put her arm around my back and said, "So, any of those girls you know over there cute?" I knew then she liked me, I told her she was cute and we went out. That was years ago (15 years ago to be exact) but I still remember her.
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YES, I realize that's about getting a girl to like a guy, but just switch the genders and the idea is the same. Some of the things in the list won't apply, but some will.
My point really is this: if you're going to change yourself just so this guy can like you more and keep you on his mind- what's the point? He's going to be thinking about a girl that ISN'T you. Sure- it's alright to BE YOURSELF and do this, but PLEASE do not change yourself just to get him to think of you like that. Do you understand what I mean?
Here's some good flirting tips:
[copied from a previous question I answered]
1. Smile! If you're not smiling, chances are the guy won't be interested.
2. Don't always talk about yourself, let him talk about himself, too! Balance the conversation. Yes, conversations are a HUGE way to flirt more indirectly ;].
3. Think about what you do. Don't just blindly go around flirting with everyone. Some people don't want to flirt, and you can tell by their body language, facial expressions, etc.
4. Be nice. I can't tell you how many times I've seen girls be complete bitches. It's SO irritating. If you're not nice, then it isn't worth the effort. Guys don't like bitches.
5. BE YOURSELF! I know you said not to say this, but as the above question told you, if you aren't yourself- who are you going to be? You aren't being truthful with the guy if you're making up things about yourself or you're doing things you normally wouldn't do. The guy will get the wrong impression and may like something about you that isn't even a part of you.
6. HAVE FUN! If you aren't at least doing that, I don't know what to tell you ;]
--Jack
(16/m)
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