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4 months later and i still cant stop
Well i had a relationship that lasted almost an entire year. The guy meant like the world to me, i mean i really was in love. but we started having trust issues. I accused him of cheating on me with his bestfriend, a chick, one too many times and he ended it. The thing is that was more than 4 months ago and i can't bring myself to move on. A guy asked me out a very good friend of mine and i said yes but all i feel is indifference in being with him. I keep thinking about my ex and i've told him that cuase we still talk. He's a straight shooter though, he says i just need to forget him and that he's just a boy. It's clear he no longer loves me but for some reason i just cant stop loving him. Please i really could use some help
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Getting over someone you love is one of the most complicated and one of the most painful things you will ever due. But sometime it is really for the best, though it may not feel like it at this moment it may be. The best thing for you to do is to try your best to move on, maybe even avoid a friendship with the guy, it will probably be easier for you to let go if you don't have to be around him. Surrond yourself with distractions, pick up a new hobby, hang out with new people, and spend alot of time with your friends. Yes, it is going to be miserable for a while, but you will slowly get used to the fact that he is gone and after a while you will be okay. Just remember if it is meant to be then he will come back and you guys will be happy and if he doesn't then you will find someone that you love and that means more to you than you ever felt possible and this time learn to trust him and your relationship. Things will work out for you, it will just take time.
Hope I Helped and Good Luck.
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i dated this boy for two years and seven months, it's been five months, and i still have slight like the littlest feelings for him, and its still taken me this long, ive been through like eight boys, and now i am almost finally over him, my lesson is you are going to have to go through "rebounds" to get over him, and that's basically what that boy you are dating is.
good luck.
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