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friend likes me...i told him i liked his best friend
13/f
well you see...this might be confusing...sorry if it is. so yea mii best friend likesz me, lets call him Ryan. and he asked me out. i said no cuz it was complicated...mii other best friend who was also his bestest friend ever liked me, lets call this guy dave. and i didnt really like any of them. (by the way, just to clarify, im not transsexual or anything, im straight, the two are boiis who like me, and im a girl.)so yea, ryan asked me out. i said no and he was being so annoying. i guess i was too nice about it and stuff so he still thought he had a chance. he knew dave liked me too, but they were really good friends, so they wouldnt let a girl ruin their friendship. then ryan realized he wasnt going to get me, so he gave uo being really annoying and apologized on aim to me. so yes, i didn like dave before but now i like him. and so i told ryan dat, because he was my best friend and all, even when i knew he still liked me. damn i was being so stupid! he probably got mad cuz he all of a sudden yelled at me...i could tell...because he hardly uses exclamation points unless hes excited or hes mad in messages. i am really confused and i feel so stupid for telling ryan dat. wat should i do?
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well..lets think through this :)
ok so..dave liked you but you didn't like him back at first. BUT NOW you do.
Honestly..i feel as if it just wouldn't really work out with either boys period..As tough as that sounds/seems it's kinda true
Because..i mean these two boys are best friends and even though they say oh you know were not gunna let you get between our friendship...well Ryan kinda proved that statement wrong because he got made at you and it's because you NOW like Dave... and meanwhile Ryan like you. get it:P
And honestly don't feel stupid for telling Ryan that..HONEY HE'S YOUR BEST FRIEND RIGHT? And he KNOWS that he pretty much doesn't have a chance with you so that ryan kid better shape up and start acting like that best friend that he is.
Now dave..having a relationship with this kid might be risky..Because you didn't like him before..so there is that small gap between you and him already. But now you do like him..So theres something about him that obviously doesn't fully turn you on like you think he does.I know this because..well you had that moment where you knew he liked you but you didn't like him.
But heck go for Dave if you really want. But it's not all about you..and i'm telling you that right now if you go after Dave i don't think things are going to turn any better than they would..if you DIDN'T go out with Dave.
Good Luck :D
And remember it's your decision. Never use our advices or suggestion to MAKE the decision for you. Because NO ONE knows you better than yourself.
Were just here to help :D
SO BEST OF LUCK;)
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