im freaking out because me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday. it was my first time
but it wasnt like normal sex. cause his pants were still on but his zipper was unzipped so his dick was out. my whole is pretty tight so his dick was barely in me but it still hurt cuase it was my first time. but he didnt use a condom and my cherry didnt pop. and his dick was in me about 3 times which all together was maybe 5 minutes? and i know he didnt cum and he says he didnt either. but im scared that i could be pregant. i havent slept at all and ive been googling like everything and i know about precum and stufff. and the morning after pill. but im 15 and i cant get it. and there is nooo way i can tell my mom. she would like kill me
i really dont think i am but i dont want to take any chances. what can i do.
and does anyone think i am pregnant?
cate9brown answered Saturday June 21 2008, 5:10 pm: there's a slim chance you could be protected because you did not use protection. i will not even go into the possiblity of STDs. (never buy into what someone tells you. PROTECT YOURSELF!!!) because you are sexually active you DO need to see a doctor, so that they may peform annual pap smears.
there is something about your question that really bugs me. the way you described it, you weren't comfortable when you had sex. you should never feel pressured to have sex; the more comfortable you are, the better it will feel, and the more satisfied you will be. also, use lubricant. it will help prevent pain and vaginal tearing, which could lead to an infection. [ cate9brown's advice column | Ask cate9brown A Question ]
Lola answered Saturday June 21 2008, 2:06 pm: First of all, you must necessarily were protection seeing that your still only 15 years old, and its really none of my business how old you are or if you plan to do anything again, but here is my piece of advice, wear protection next time and everytime.
Second of all, it doesn't need a genius to state the fact that there is a small percentage of chance that you may get pregnant.
Third of all, do not tell your mom anything at all right now, to avoid major trouble and problems when your not even sure at all that your pregnant.
Fourth of all, and to be definitely on the safe side and to be asured with a 100% true and positive answer, consult a doctor, ofcourse you could also use pregnancy tests and stuff, you can buy those from any pharmacy, but it's been said that they are not 100% right nor positive. [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
Cux answered Saturday June 21 2008, 1:49 pm: WHENEVER you have vaginal sex, there is ALWAYS a chance- that may be slim, but since you were unprotected, the chance is even greater.
YG [younggrandma], who is an advice columnist here has frequently given this site out, which I have read a few times, and it seems to have good information:
www.coolnurse.com
Check it out- it will really help you.
Please use protection if you're not wanting to get pregnant.
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