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my mom and i used to be real close and tight but lately its different. she doesnt have as much time for me and when im around her she is always sayin she has a headache or is mad about sumthin
i cant stand her lately. i dont know what to do helpppp! thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? xhoneylee answered Saturday June 14 2008, 4:42 pm: I think your mom is going through a hard time in her life right now. Maybe its something at her job. You should try to sit down and tell her what's wrong and try to catch-up on her life instead of worrying about how your mom and your relationship is breaking. Maybe then she'll start to talk to you again. You could also go with her on a free day to go get icecream or have a girls night out by getting a pedicure. Treat her to some nice dinner! :D
Hope everything gets better :)
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MAK answered Saturday June 14 2008, 1:05 am: I'm going through the same thing with my mom right now. She has been working a lot lately and is crabby about everything. I just found that giving her her space and letting her come to you usually helps. Also, try to catch her in a good mood.
Helping her around the house helps improve her mood (and her stress levels). When I notice my mom especially tired or moody, I'll do the vacuuming for her, and also things like unloading the dishwasher, cooking, laundry, etc.
If you see that she is in a good mood, let her know that you miss spending time with her. I'm sure you two can dedicate a certain day or time just for mother-daughter time.
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