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Theres a girl i wanted to make out with and play with tomorrow. I had sex a few weeks ago, and about a few days ago i developed some pimples/zits above my penis. I got an hiv test, and i haven't been contacted with the results.
I had a zit a half an inch above my lip
will it be okay to make out with her, and would it be okay if she gave me a handjob? would she catch anything?
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You shouldn't be making out or having any sexual contact with anyone if you feel you may have an STD or STI.
I also want to note that what you're describing is, most likely, not HIV/AIDs but herpes or HPV. Bumps on or around the genital area is the main sign of both of these. Bumps around the mouth/lips is a sign of herpes (either strain HSV-1 or HSV-2).
Guys get HPV too and can spread it to females. Guys typically do not show signs of having HPV, only the strain that causes warts MIGHT cause them to have warts on their penis; however, many men with HPV have no idea they have it and there is yet to be a test to see if a guy has contracted it so there is no way to tell.
I know HPV can live under the fingernails and herpes is so easily spread that many people with coldsores even end up having sores on their fingertips at some point. You touch so many things during the day you have no idea what's on your hands or deep in your nails that you cannot reach to wash away. You, most certainly, can contract herpes on any area of your body.
You need to make a doctor's appointment for an entire STD screening, not just for HIV/AIDS. You are at risk for many things and are showing symptoms of life-long illnesses.
Your doctor may scrape the bump near your penis to test it for HSV (herpes) strains, as he should have done previously when seeing it. Call your doctor NOW and ask to make an appointment for a full STD screening! This is important.
Do not engage in sexual activity until you find out the results of your test. You can be sued if you knowingly pass on a STD to a sexual partner.
I hope you do as directed and scratch sexual encounter plans with your friend. If you have any more questions regarding this issue please feel free to ask me :)
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ABSOLUTEY NOT!
you're not sure if your hiv positive so wait!
at least ask her if she's ok with taking the risk.
be considerate of her feelings, and be careful.
hope i helped!
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It would be irresponsible and dishonest of you to allow sexual contact to take place with anyone until you find out what the bumps on your penis are.
How would you feel if someone decided not to tell you about that sort of thing just because they didn't know for sure?
Make out with her all you want, but lay off the heavy petting until you hear from the doctor.
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