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I can't read him and we're going in different directions now
there's this boy at my school (Let's call him Scott). I started talkin g to him around march. but we started off myspacing then AIM then texting. All in like a week and a half. Ever since then we text alot & can talk about alot of things with eachother. But we barely talk in person, we are both shy. We just hug and "hey" here & there. When I first started talking to him I noticed he was really sweet. Like no other guy that I had ever met before. As time went by I told him I thought he was a sweety & he told me that I was a sweetheart, (we would have our little "no your sweeter" "no you are" competitions) & he would call me things like love & sweetheart. Like when saying goodnite, he'd say "ima c u tommorow ok? Nite love =D" & I felt like he listened to what I said. one time I told him that my cousin had gotten a text from a guy just saying goodnight. I thought that was sweet so I told him. And later that day he did it & put in love. so a couple of weeks ago (like 3) he told me he liked me. I told him I liked him too. bit school was coming to an en. (It ends tommorow actually). And we are both going to go to different schools next year (by the way we're going to be seniors). And I was telling him tonite "you better not forget me" he said "y would I? How? we'll keep in touch trust me =)". I want something to happen though. I wanna be his girlfriend. I have a best friend named Clare,& she's really good friends with him & she said that he was going to ask me out but then he realized the school year was almost over. how do I figure out if he still likes me? And what do I do about the different schools?
Thanks
-emily
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Emily, sounds like you guys have had a pretty cute relationship! Keep in mind that the relationship you two have now would not be effected by being at different schools since you mostly only talk through AIM and text. that is the good news. it is for that reason that i would discourage you from asking him for a commitment (especially with a new school year starting)
but, if you ask him if he wants to keep things how they are now or if he wants to be in a relationship, then you should definitely consider it, because being at different schools means that no one is in your business because you will have seperate friends. good news!
I wouldn't try to "find out" if he likes you, of course he does! it's just a question of whether he wants to be in a relationship right now. hope it works out!
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I think straight approach is the best way to find out if this guy likes you but if your too shy to do that then ask him through your friend b/c friends are good at finding out true feelings and if things work out then dont let something as small as different schools interfere because you two can still see eachother and hang out after school and on weekends and if you really like him and he likes you back then it will work out good luck!! :)
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